- What does that mean?
- "In philosophy, 'the Absurd' refers to the conflict between the human tendency to seek inherent value and meaning in life, and the human inability to find any in a purposeless, meaningless or chaotic and irrational universe."
- It has no rational reason for being
- It has no purpose
- It has no meaning (other than what we choose to make of it)
- We all want to believe there is something or someone behind it
- An enemy, a conspiracy to blame
- It doesn't make any sense
- It came on us through no fault of our own
- For example, it was not a punishment from God
- (Though it would make just as much sense to say it hit the U.S. so hard to chasten us for electing one of the most evil people ever to occupy the Presidency as to say that Hurricane Katrina was a punishment for debauchery in New Orleans)
- It will not be "conquered" as in a war or dominated politically
- It may be mitigated
- It might eventually disappear
- But these rely on effective medical and social strategies
- People dismissed it
- They called it a hoax
- They said it was just the common cold
- They said it wasn't their problem
- They called it a political hit job on the President
- They blamed the media (a nebulous, ultimately meaningless concept)
- Then they said it was no worse than the seasonal flus
- We don't do anything special about them, so why respond to this?
- They said it was no worse than automobile accidents
- They neglected to say that car wrecks, though they sometimes kill people, are not highly contagious and infectious
- Then they said it was a biological weapon created by Chinese scientists
- Then, when it became apparent it was widespread and extremely contagious and deadly, they claimed it wouldn't last
- The President said it would go away magically in a few days and that deaths would decline from fifteen per day to zero before the end of April
- It's inconvenient
- It's incomprehensible
- It's offensive to our sense of self-worth
- It's intolerable
- It's a threat to our self-understanding and our usual way of life
- We want to understand what's happening to us
- We want a convenient answer to explain why this is happening
- It is an unwanted distraction from our fixed ideas and plans; it causes us to lose focus on reality and the actual threat that we are facing
- For example, the Trump administration discarded all of the pandemic planning from the previous administration and dismantled the pandemic task force on the National Security Council—and, after the pandemic hit, they were paralyzed, didn't know what to do, and failed to re-institute these measures
- Trump personally ignored warnings about the threat, and his denials and delay in directly confronting this pandemic has resulted in undue additional deaths and economic disruption
- And there's more likely to come by virtue of leaders denying the potential for a resurgence of the virus before a vaccine is developed
- Testing
- For infection
- For antibodies
- Isolation and quarantine
- Other public health social measures
- Education about washing hands, masks, means of transmission, etc.
- Social distancing, limiting public gatherings, etc.
- Contact tracing
- Locating every one the infected person been in contact with
- Treatment strategies
- Vaccine development
- A lengthy, difficult process which most don't understand
- Fear: This may be the biggest factor.
- This virus is an existential threat; that means it can kill you and others
- We worry: What will this unknown scourge do to me and my family and friends? To the country? To the economy? To the world?
- Denial:
- We think: Oh, it can't be as bad as all that
- That's leads us to distractions
- We try to forget about the omnipresence of this threat
- Magical Thinking:
- We think: God will save us
- Or, it will go away on its own if we ignore it
- Or, I'm impervious; it can't happen to me
- Embarrassment:
- We think: How could this happen to me? to us? I didn't do anything to deserve this
- Leaders are embarrassed it happened on their watch, don't want to be blamed
- Victims are embarrassed they got sick
- Blame:
- We think: This had to be somebody's fault—but not mine
- Leaders try to slough off responsibility instead of directly dealing with the problem, so they invent boogeymen
- Trump blames China, Democrats, Media, States
- Trump claims he bears no responsibility for the health of the nation
- Paralysis:
- We are so overwhelmed by the magnitude of the situation, we can't act
- Or, in Trump's case, we refuse to act to relieve suffering
- The extent to which this is (a) Trump's incompetence and inability to govern or (b) a GOP ideological inflexibility is yet to be determined
- The long-term Republican strategy of "starving the beast" by depriving the federal government of revenue to reduce its ability to act may be at play here
- As tax strategist Grover Norquist said: "My goal is to cut government in half in twenty-five years, to get it down to the size where we can drown it in the bathtub."
- Well, it's certainly drowning now
- But it's drowning in deaths of American citizens that are proportionally completely out-of-whack with those of most other countries.
- We just crossed the 100,000 death threshold
- Exhaustion:
- This thing is so big and overwhelming, fighting it just seems endless
- It's a marathon, not a sprint.
- Our sympathy, which begins running on adrenalin, takes its toll on first responders and medical facilities are overwhelmed
- Scientists working tirelessly to develop vaccines and cures burn themselves out
- We don't know how long we can hold out in isolation without going to restaurants or barber shops and hair salons or movies and bowling alleys
- Over-reaction:
- Some cry, "Let's just shut down everything. Let's reboot society! Burn it all down! Let everybody die who's going to die so we can have 'herd immunity'; we'll be stronger as a species for it."
- Grasping for cures:
- Snake oil! Miracle bleach! Hydroxychloroquine! Silver oxide!
- Of course, it is this aspect which brings on charlatans, frauds, snake oil salesmen, and other conmen trying to exploit this feeling of uncertainty and make a quick buck off vulnerable
- Stress:
- It is pervasive; it overlays everything from our isolation and daily meal planning to problems with re-opening the larger economy
- It suffocates us; it weighs down all our thoughts and emotions and actions
- Nostalgia:
- We hope we will get back to the good old days; we want the old 'normal
- Cynicism:
- Some don't care who or how many die but merely want their political polls or stock portfolios or profits to increase
- Some politicians are actually polling and making political calculations about how many deaths are acceptable so that a mayor or governor or president can claim to re-open. They've proclaimed this thinking publicly
- These are the real "death panels" which some used as a canard—a false charge—against the Affordable Care Act
- Loneliness:
- So many people are dying alone, losing loved ones
- Others are isolating with no social contact with their churches or clubs or groups
- Anger:
- We're mad at the virus so we act out, taking it out on the very people who are trying to alleviate or mitigate the disease and those around us
- Misguided outrage helps us deal with our own feelings of helplessness before this thing which is bigger than us, has no reason, attacked us through no fault of our own
- But because it is misguided, it causes further societal damage
- And that is what this situation feels like
- We are all grieving. We are all experiencing grief
- But our grief feels so small in the face of this overwhelming general pandemic
- And that is the problem
- There's nothing we, individually, can do
- We feel vulnerable and helpless in the face of this massive assault
- And we don't like that feeling
- What's more, we can't even be sad—yet. It's too early to mourn
- People are still getting sick and dying
- We are still in the throes of this thing
- We are still experiencing limitations on our freedoms and activities
- So our grief takes all these other misdirected forms
- We are impatient for it to be over
- We all want to live our lives free of this virus and the restrictions it has imposed on us
- We all want to do anything else than isolate
- We all want to get back to normal
- But in this case, normal may cause yet more devastation—economic and social—and greater death tolls as second and possibly third waves hit
- And we need to be very wary of this
- It's okay to feel sad, feel helpless, to be angry, to be stressed out, to mourn
- But it's how we deal with those emotions that matters in society
- How we act out our emotional turmoil
- Sympathy: Ask 'What can I do to help someone who is suffering, someone who is in grief?'
- Hope: There will be a vaccine perhaps a cure—someday. Some good people are on the job
- Patience: Don't rush back into unsafe situations. Be wise!
- This grieving will not end anytime soon
- We need to be aware of it, understand it, and somehow learn to accept this as our changed circumstance
- We can take some comfort in the fact that it is temporary, but must realize it is not going away anytime soon
- And take precautions as we go forward